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One star-review for the love of dogs!

dogToday I received my first Amazon one-star review on a book from my Haunting Danielle Series. When authors receive one star reviews they respond in a variety of ways. Some simply ignore reviews, maybe not even read them. Others get defensive and believe the reviewer is a troll. An author might experience depression and vow to never write another book. Personally, I try to learn from reviews, yet take them all—even the positive ones—with a grain of salt.

As for today’s one star review, I could actually relate to the reviewer. I’ve been her before. Just ask my husband and daughter—if I’m watching a movie and a scene makes me uncomfortable—maybe it is excessive violence or a favorite character is threatened—I find an excuse to leave the room. When reading a book, if it takes a turn I dislike, I might stop reading and just skim, as did my one-star reviewer.

According to the reviewer, she enjoyed the first two books in the series, and was enjoying the third book, until—for the record this is not a spoiler—Sadie the golden retriever is kidnapped and almost sold for dogfighting. She is rescued by the next chapter. This book isn’t about dogfighting, even though I made sure those involved are arrested by the end of the story. The point was to illustrate the evilness of two characters in the book. Plus, I wanted Sadie to get just a little pissed at Walt for being so irresponsible.

While the story didn’t contain graphic description of dogfighting—the mention of the horrific practice was enough to bother at least one reader.

My story so upset the reviewer that it prompted her to write her first Amazon review and cross me off her list for future books. I’d be willing to lose a reader if I believed my story struck a cord—even an unpleasant one—making the reader reflect on something I find horrific and needs to stop, like dogfighting. But the fact is, I imagine my one-star reviewer is already an animal lover who doesn’t need this lesson. She resented me dragging too much real life into the cozy.

On the flip side, I have to chuckle just a little, because some poor woman did get her head bashed in and was left for dead in the first chapter of this story and that didn’t seem to bother the reviewer. Which reminds me of the sweater slogan: I don’t care who dies in a movie, just as long as the dog lives.

I’m an avid animal lover, so I can totally relate to that slogan. I can also relate to the sentiments of my one-star reviewer.

Would I re-write the story if given a chance? Probably not.

(If you want to purchase one of those sweat shirts, click on the above image. I believe the money goes toward animal rescue, yet I can’t personally vouch for the organization. Yet, it is a great shirt!)

Today has been good!

dogbedThis morning I finally got the call from my doctor that I’ve been waiting for—to find out if I will need chemo. The test results are in! The verdict: no chemo!

Since getting the breast cancer diagnoses I’ve spent a lot of time online researching cancer. I’ve made radical changes in my diet—switching to organic food, eating more salmon and halibut (which I love), reducing my beef consumption by 90%, practically eliminating dairy, and ramping up my power food consumption. I’m now walking 60 minutes a day on the treadmill and since my surgery in December, have lost 30 pounds and dropped two sizes.

I’ve also read a lot of alternate cancer cure sites which sometimes promotes the notion that doctors are the enemy. After all, cancer is a big industry and someone is raking in mega bucks. But does that really mean all doctors are just looking out for themselves—financially?

People are people. It doesn’t matter what they do for a living, be it a lawyer, doctor, cop or fireman; there will be good ones and bad ones. I prefer to think that the good ones out number the bad. I am sure there are doctors out there who push unnecessary medical procedures to line their pockets, yet I don’t believe that is the norm.

My chemo doctor (I call him that)—told me his job was to treat my cancer, not to give me chemo. He seemed genuinely relieved that the test indicated chemo would not be necessary. I feel blessed to have a supported family, friends, and doctors I trust.

I’ll confess this has been a bit of a roller coaster ride, not knowing for sure what’s around the corner. Of course, we never really know what’s around the corner and our lives can change in a single moment.

On Monday I see the radiation doctor, to schedule treatments. Hopefully I’ll be done by early April, in time to schedule a couple trips to see our kids in Oregon and Northern California.

Other good news today, our nephew’s wife gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. This is a new grandson for my sis. Grandkids are the best! And great-nephews are pretty great too!

In the meantime, back to writing Haunting Danielle, Book 3. I can finally focus. Well, at least after I finish doing my happy dance.

(Photo: My new writing space in the guest house, Doris Cottage, where I’m working on Haunting Danielle, Book 3.  That’s Lady girl on the new doggy bed we bought for the guest house.  She likes to keep me company.)

Love, loss, struggles and the power of family…

flowers DorisTo say 2014 has been a challenge for my husband and me would be an understatement. We spent most of the summer dealing with Don’s knee infection which involved emergency surgery and six week of in-home IV treatment—three times a day administered by yours truly.

Just when Don was able to start enjoying life again we went to visit our daughter and her family in their new Sacramento home only to cut our trip short when my mother-in-law, Doris, was hospitalized. After two weeks in the hospital, and two surgeries, Doris passed away in intensive care, while Don held one of her hands and I held the other.

In spite of the fact Doris was 86, her death came as an unexpected shock to us. Her father had made it to just a few months shy of his 100th birthday and the day before her death we were told she’d be released from the hospital in a few days and that physically she was doing well.

Doris lived in a little house on our property, and my mother (also 86) lives with us. Mom took Doris’ death especially hard—losing a lifelong friend from her own generation, whom she shared so many memories.

In the midst of planning Doris’ memorial service and settling her estate, I was diagnosed with stage two breast cancer. I’m having surgery the first part of December.

One thing I am reminded of through all of this is what a wonderful—seriously—truly remarkable—family I’ve been blessed with. Not just our two amazing adult children and their supportive and loving spouses, and our two grandchildren, but my mother, sister and all the extended family—like Don’s cousins on the Talbot side of the family, who are always there when we need them.

Doris’s memorial service proved to be a love fest as we were surrounded by friends and family, many of whom came a long way to be by our side—from Texas, Missouri, Montana, Oregon and California.

I will get through the breast cancer—not just because I’ve already been through cancer twice and lived to tell the tale (malignant olfactory nerve in 1978 and thyroid cancer in 2005) but because I’ve the love and support of such an amazing family. Plus, I’m stubborn as hell. Just ask Don.

In preparing for my battle I’m making a radical change to my diet, focusing on foods cancer hates and eliminating foods cancer loves—like sugar—from my diet. I’ll be working with doctors I trust to fight this battle, while at the home front doing all I can to starve those little bastard cancer cells.

This morning for breakfast I had a tossed green salad, Alaskan salmon, humus, cucumber slices and almonds. Was quite yummy.

I am also getting back to writing Haunting Danielle, Book 3 (with my alter ego Anna J. McIntyre) while working on my treadmill desk (which I am doing right now). I took several weeks off, but now time to get back to writing and taking care of myself. I’d hoped to release Haunting Danielle, Book 3 January 1, 2015, but  now I am shooting for sometime in January 2015.

If anyone can recommend some proven books on cancer fighting foods, please share!